Desire feels spontaneous, but the researchers and therapists in this film argue it follows patterns that can be traced and even rewired. In Munich, a student named Lara works through sex therapy sessions with Zurich-based clinical sexologist Dania Schiftan, uncovering how repeated experiences carve neural pathways that make some stimuli arousing and others flat. German stand-up comedian Hauke van Göns talks on camera for the first time about his erectile dysfunction, tracing it back to the cultural scripts he absorbed about how love and sex are supposed to happen. Neurologist and psychotherapist Heike Melzer and cultural studies scholar Louisa Lorenz add clinical and social context, while a non-binary interviewee named Lynn discusses how identity shapes erotic experience outside conventional scripts. Breathing exercises, movement, and mindfulness appear as concrete techniques the film's subjects use to reconnect with bodily sensation. Interviews and coaching sessions carry the film rather than reenactment, and the result reads as a survey of what current sex research and therapy actually know about wanting.